Grafton – Oak
If my kids are hanging out together, they are most likely on the couch. Some days they are playing a game involving stuffed animals, some days a game involving play food, some days a game involving building blocks, but most often they just wrestling and using their imagination. Today it was pure silliness and wrestling.
Everyone enjoyed their last day of vacation today. The kids loved having one more day before school started. Wade was enjoying one last day off work. Granny and Pop enjoyed one last day in Grafton.
Wade took the the two youngest for a swim at Granny and Pop’s hotel this morning. The two older boys and I were lazy bums. Once we were all together, we spent the rest of the day playing dolls, monster trucks, reading books, and playing games.
Wade has been on a project streak after Christmas. He’s been finishing up jobs – Ben’s closet door and trim; Alex’s bathroom wall patch. He’s also been working on new ones – Kaitlyn’s non-working radiator and a suspicious mark on my office ceiling. At first we thought Kaitlyn’s non-working radiator and the leak were connected – after working for several hours, Wade figured out they were not connected but had both fixed (except the hole which has to wait till it dries out a little).
Several years ago Kaitlyn wrote a letter to Santa, put it in the mail, and got a reply. I was as shocked as she was! It has been one of her most treasured possessions ever since. Last year she chose not to write, but this year she couldn’t wait. She wrote her letter early and again got a sweet reply.
Then it got to be the week before Christmas and Ben wanted to write a letter. I hoped it wasn’t too late to get a response, but of course Santa came through. I was even more impressed with Ben’s response because it addressed so many of the specifics in Ben’s letter. Truly amazing!
The personality on this one is strong! Ben gets remembered everywhere we go (sometimes I’m not always sure it is for stellar reasons). Today we were walking through the grocery and the bakery lady yells, “Ben, Ben, How was your birthday?” She had remembered him from he picked out his birthday cake a few weeks ago.
The middle school choral concert was tonight. The dress code was the same as previous years – all black but touches of Christmas cheer were allowed. I tried to convince Alex to wear a Christmas tie and got a hard no. Wade was alone with him for 30 seconds and Alex came out dressed to the nines. (Yay for Wade.)
Our fridge has been intermittently leaking. We thought it was the seal on the freezer door failing so we would clean it up and try to be better about carefully closing the freezer door. Today the leaking didn’t stop when we cleaned it up. Thankfully Wade was home and could take a look at the leak in action. He realized we had a bigger problem. Evidently we had a clogged drain tube. It’s all fixed now.
When Kaitlyn’s latest Raddish box arrived, she couldn’t wait for a free day to cook. She was immediately fascinated with the Cinnamon Star bread and we agreed today was the day. Kaitlyn spent the morning cooking and the rest of the family got to enjoy a delicious treat.
Kaitlyn has been patiently waiting to decorate “her” tree for weeks. Tonight we finally got the trees in her room and Ben’s room. The big boys weren’t as interested so we didn’t put them up in their rooms this year. Maybe now I can officially say we are decorated for Christmas. (That’s if you ignore the pumpkin mat outside our front door.)
Alex has PE this month and is not happy about it. He is grade on how many situps and pushups he can do in a set amount of time. It turns out Alex can’t do very many pushups so we have been working with him at home. Wade tried to show off a little with Ben and then remembered he wasn’t in his 20s anymore.
I’m not sure of exactly what game my children were playing today, but it appeared to me that two of them pretended to be lumps under a blanket. The other one would attack them and then they would trade places and do it again. Regardless, they all seemed to have a blast and the game continued for quite some time. Pepper was quite confused why she wasn’t allowed to join in the fun.
After getting back from KY, we had to wait a few days to get our tree. First it was raining, then the boys had bells, then it was something else. Finally we got a tree and had a free evening to decorate! We put on some Christmas music, pulled out the ornaments, and I even convinced the kids to wear matching pajamas.
Ben is turning into a little shopper. The littles have swim lessons over halfway to our closest outlets. Sometimes it just makes sense to drive the rest of the way and make a quick stop to shop or make a return. I must go more than I realize because the last time we went, we walked in the door and the lady says to Ben, “I remember you. The last time you were here, you bought a Dinosaur fossil shirt and socks.” She was right and Ben had completely picked them out himself. He loves to shop. This week he fell in love with the puppy slippers.
Ben always gets to celebrate a couple of times for his birthday – once at home and once on the road. Today was the day we celebrated at home.
The plan was donuts for breakfast. I had planned to get up and go to Dunkin. Alex had taken orders the night before and told me he was going to walk down to pick them up, but I didn’t quite believe him. I knew it was going to be early, cold, and dark. Imagine my surprise when I got downstairs this morning and there was Alex sitting at the table, drinking hot chocolate (our favorite is from Dunkin), with a box of donuts.
We had candles in donuts and then Ben chose a present to open. He chose the biggest and it was the Gabby Dollhouse he has been hoping and hoping to get. I put it together and he and Kaitlyn played until the bus came.
Ben and I had a sushi lunch (his favorite) and then he picked Chick-fil-a with milkshakes for dinner. His cake was paw patrol but we did presents first, at his request. He had a fabulous birthday and he can’t wait to celebrate again in KY.
This past summer, Ben decided to let his hair grow. He wanted a ponytail like Kaitlyn (see here). After about 4-5 months, he has decided (with no prompting from me) to get a haircut.
Before:
After:
I will admit there were parts of the longer hair I really liked. Because of that, we decided to keep his hair longer than we did before.
Wade likes to tweak things and wait to see how long it takes people to notice. He often has quite a bit of scruff before he shaves, but sometimes he shaves a mustache and waits to see if anyone notices (sometimes it does take us a little while). Today, I walked through the house and realized I had a new addition to my gallery wall. Evidently Wade got picked for an item on our local Facebook Buy Nothing page.
Alex and a huge group of teenagers showed up after school today. He likes to have his friends over but sometimes his friends come with more friends. Alex came inside several times to tell me he wasn’t sure he wanted that many people at his house. I told him to roll with it and meet some new people. He came in a few more times but seemed to enjoy himself overall. Some days he wants to be social and some days he wants to do work on his own projects.
Kaitlyn got face faint several years ago and goes through phases of wanting to “practice.” Today was a day she wanted to practice. However, we recently realized the hair doll she got for her birthday is also great for practicing makeup and face paint. Both wash right off! She practiced and nobody had to sit still or worry about crazy face designs. Although, that spider is pretty impressive!
Pumpkin Carving Party time! If you are keeping track, tonight was our 16th party. I didn’t actually count the number of people attending, but we definitely had a lot of new faces and people who have been coming since we started the party here in the beginning. We were having so much fun that we were a little slow getting to the carving of the pumpkins, which means we were also late getting to the group picture. This is the first year in many years we have taken the picture in full dark.
And always the group photo:
We went to the high school football game as a family tonight. Kaitlyn was supposed to cheer, but her soccer practice interfered so we ended up just attending the game as a family. Most everyone found some friends at the game and spent a lot of time running around. By the time we got home, everyone was pretty tired and ready for bed. I thought everyone had gone upstairs to get ready for bed, but as I passed the laundry room, I did a double take. Ben was just hanging out in the dryer….
Kaitlyn has been wanted to have one of her besties over for a sleepover for months and months, but one thing or another and we just haven’t worked it out. Having cheer practice at 8 am on Saturday mornings has also been a huge issue. But having a Monday holiday was perfect! We picked up pizza, some snacks for a movie, and then got the fun started.
This was our Saturday. It started with Ben wanting his own chore list. He petered out after about three chores, but he did manage to unload the silverware from the dishwater, empty all the small trashcans, and pick up all the dog toys. Then Ben was “dressed” to go outside with Pepper. It’s his new favorite activity. He takes a dog toy out but then never actually gives it to Pepper. They just run around like crazy outside, but they both seem to enjoy it.
Next up was morning cartoons. We have been delaying them on Saturdays until Kaitlyn gets back from cheer practice. Then everyone finished up chores and disappeared for iPad time or got ready for their playdates. (Kaitlyn is pretty excited that she managed to schedule three playdates in a row this weekend.)

